Saturday, 19 May 2012

Body Image....

Every girl dream of a perfect body where they could fit in the smaller size of clothes...They want 2 look good because it increases their self-confidence...When they look amazing,people start 2 compliment them and it will just make their day...There are 2 types of how some people describe girls...They will either say "THIN" or "THICK".....I'll brief u more on it.....


THIN...........
Thin girls are girls who can fit into size 0-4 as per the American's and they don't usually have excess of fat around the problematic area like the thigh,stomach,back,arm and face(double-chin)...It's not that they don't have fat contained in their body..They do have it but not too much till its obvious...Anyway,some say that thin girls are boney and its 4 the dogs but i have 2 dis-agree with that...There are reasons 4 them becoming like that..Sometimes its because of their career like modeling,fast metabolism and the main thing is that God created them like that and we should accept them the way they are by stop judging them in a bad way but try 2 make them as your role model if u want 2 have a body like them....


THICK.............
Thick girls are girls who usually have excess of fat at their problematic area...I won't say that its bad but i would say depends...If their body weight is proportional with their height,then its fine...If they are overweight,then i would advice them 2 lose some weight till its proportional...Its also better 4 their health which is the most important thing rite??!!Some say that thick girls are beautiful the way they are because they have curves at the correct areas and I myself kinda agree with the curve part...


Anyway,thick or thin,the most important thing is your personality and how u bring up yourself around people...Manners are also important 4 a girl because that's how people usually remember us..Its not just because of the high class stuffs but its actually because of our manners =)

A wise man once said that people often notice old clothes or body size if you flash that smile of yours...Its actually a priceless thing because a simple smile of yours can brighten people's day...Its actually kinda contagious...When a person smiles at you,do u smile back???I bet u did =)

What I'm trying 2 say is that we should love ourselves the way it is..I know that jealousy will surely occur in the heart but try 2 put that away by controlling it with your mind...Yr mind is the strongest asset and I know that u can do it 2 overcome jealousy...

Choosing the right clothes 2 compliment your body is also important...Choose the correct colours and designs 4 your body...Bright colours usually shows your exact body shape but darker colours slimmers your figure...I won't say that girls with bigger figure can't use bright colours but be smart at colour coding your outfit...The clothes with horizontal stripes usually expand our body figure while clothes with vertical stripes slimmers our body figure...

I would also love 2 dedicate a song 2 every girl out there who is still having difficulty in accepting themselves the way they are...The meaning of this song is so beautiful and it touches my heart =)


I used 2 care so much about what others think about
I almost didn't have a thought of my own

The slightest remark would make me embark
On  a journey of self-doubt but that was awhile ago

This girl had got stronger and if i knew then what i know now
I would have told myself don't worry any longer,its okey

Cause a face without freckles is like the sky without the stars
Why waste a second not loving who you are
Those little imperfections make u beautiful,lovable,valuable
They show your personality inside your heart
Reflecting who u are

Who you are
Who you are
Who you are

I wondered if i could trade my body
With somebody else in magazines
With the whole world fall at my feet

I felt damn worthy and would blame my failures
On the ugliness i could see when the mirror looked at me

Sometimes i still feel like that little girl
Who doesn't belong in her own world
But I'm getting better and reminding myself

That a face without freckles is like the stars without the sky
Why waste a second not loving who you are
Those little imperfections make you beautiful,lovable,valuable
They show your personality inside your heart
Reflecting who you are

Reflecting who you are
Reflecting who you are

Cause a face without freckles is like the sky without the stars
Why waste a second not loving who you are
Those little imperfections make you beautiful,lovable,valuable
They show your personality inside your heart
Reflecting who you are

Reflecting who you are
Reflecting who you are
Reflecting who you are
Reflecting who you are

P.s:Leave a comment if  u need any advice or have any suggestions c(:

1 comment:

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